From the Adult Book - First edition.
#1. Places we go when things are uncertain or too much : stress, overwhelm, anxiety, worry, avoidance, excitement, dread, fear, vulnerability --
#2. Places we go when we compare : comparison, admiration, reverence, envy, jealousy, resentment, Schadenfreude, Freudenfreude --
#3. Places we go when things don't go as planned : boredom, disappointment, expectations, regret, discouragement, resignation, frustration --
#4. Places we go when it's beyond us : awe, wonder, confusion, curiosity, interest, surprise --
#5. Places we go when things aren't what they seem : amusement, bittersweetness, nostalgia, cognitive dissonance, paradox, irony, sarcasm --
#6. Places we go when we're hurting : anguish, hopelessness, despair, sadness, grief --
#7. Places we go with others : compassion, pity, empathy, boundaries, comparative suffering --
#8. Places we go when we fall short : shame, self-compassion, perfectionism, insecurity, invisibility, loneliness
Places we go when we search for connection : belonging, fitting in, connection, disconnection, insecurity, invisibility, loneliness --
#10. Places we go when the heart is open : love, lovelessness, heartbreak, trust, self-trust, betrayal, defensiveness, flooding, hurt --
#11. Places we go when life is good : joy, happiness, calm, contentment, gratitude, foreboding joy, relief, tranquility --
#12. Places we go when we feel wronged : anfer, contempt, disgust, heumanization, hate, self-righteousness --
#13. Places we go to self-assess : pride, hubris, humility. --
Cultivating meaningful connection --
[Bibliographical] notes (pages 277-296).